This won't come as a shock to anyone now days, but she's been stressed with typical American Family things: kids, bills, work, kids' school, and other commitments. She has a sales type job, which hasn't been as fruitful as she would have hoped, which is causing us both stress.
We talked about all of this last night, and she was almost apologizing about not doing more stuff lately, especially over the weekend. She even expressed that it must be torture for me since I haven't been able to cum in so long. I laughed at that, re-assuring her and telling her that my condition was voluntary to her. That we came to the agreement that this is how it would occur, that she should enjoy it, have fun with it and do whatever she wanted. I was there for her.
After our talk (which was in bed), I asked her if she wanted to have a relaxing orgasm so she could sleep better. When we usually make love, it's more frenetic, fast paced and intense. This time, however, I took my time, leisurely bringing her off.
She was very appreciative and I was very happy. I was ready to go to sleep, but she had other things in mind. She rolled on top of me to take off my panties (yes, she was requiring me to wear panties to bed - plain black cotton - very comfortable.) When she touched my panties, she noticed the huge wet spot that had formed from being so aroused when she allowed me to give her an orgasm. She said "Oh, looks like we had an accident!"
"No, that's just my pre-cum from being so horny," I said.
"Wow, that's a lot of pre-cum!" was her response.
Just that exchange almost made me cum! Little did I know at the time that was the least of my worries. She started to slowly and lightly lick my cock from top to bottom, but never sucking. She paid particular attention to sucking my balls, which by this time were throbbing. Just doing this literally brought me to brink, requiring me to tell her to stop or I'd lose it.
With one long slow suck of my cock, she said "You're going to be hard a long time tonight, aren't you? Do you need to go take a cold shower."
I did need to take one, but it was too late. It was a fitful sleep for me, but she was able to roll over and get sound asleep quickly.
Before going to sleep, however, we had one last exchange, in which she expressed happiness about our current game and that we were definitely making love more often and that she, of course, was really enjoying her power.