Wednesday, October 28, 2009

More Dominance

She's phenomenal.  I can't believe how much she is enjoying being dominate.

It's not as if I hadn't broached the subject earlier in our marriage.  I'm not sure what has changed - maybe it's maturity, maybe it's that we have a very strong marriage and have been happily married for a long time now, maybe it's a comfort level with each other and our sexuality now, maybe it's because she's just finally interested in something new or something else - I don't know.  I do know that I'm so very happy now.  She's not only saying she's happy too, but I can see that she's happy.

There is a lot going between us, but her is a brief update on how she's exuding more and more dominance.

1)  I'm completely shaved now.  She's likes my balls, cock and entire groin area smooth.  She did let me choose whether to leave a little landing strip that is so popular with women these days.  Instead of landing strip, it's more a little square just above my cock.  Sure, it takes longer to shave in the morning in the shower, but it's worth it.

P.S. - any tips of dealing with the little red irritation bumps after shaving?  Lotions that work? 

2)  I'm required to keep my lips soft and supple for her.  She states that making sure my lips are kissable increases her enjoyment.  Of course, it's not as simple as me being able to use Chapstick or something.  Nope.  Instead, she requires me to wear Burt's Bees Lip Shimmer, in Champagne, all day long.

Yes, I work.  I work in a very very large office.  She says I can wear as much as I want so others will notice, or I can wear as little as I want, as long as it's actually visible.

So, I'm constantly wondering if people will notice.  If you've never seen, or heard of this, it's a Lip Balm, but with a "hint of luminescent color".  Champagne is a very light color, but also a little "glittery" - well, a shimmer - so if you use it, and the light hits your lips just so, it definitely shows.  And I'm sitting there, looking at my coffee cup and notice the shiny lipstick marks on it!  Wow, what a trip.

I actually really love the way it feels on me.  It definitely works.  My lips are softer.  But, being on edge all day long that someone is going to either see me applying it, or see the shimmer on the lips drives me crazy.  If anyone did say something, I think it's light enough for me to play it off by claiming it's a normal lip balm.  I expect, however, that if a woman saw me applying it, she would immediately recognize it and know the truth.


Chaste Hubby said...

I love keeping up with your posts. We seem to be moving along the same path at about the same pace.

Another One said...

CH - thanks for the kind words. This whole thing has been an eye opening experience and life changing event. I'm enjoying reading your updates too - especially the humorous post about the fire drill!