I did approach my wife with the idea of doing a new "game." I suggested it to her on New Years Eve, and she was totally for it. That she readily agreed and seemed excited about it has me very hopeful for the new year. Starting off with promise!
For those of you new to the blog, check the older entry on the rules of the game. Regardless, I'm in Chastity until I complete the following objectives:
1. Cook a romantic dinner for her, clean the dishes etc., and serve her for the rest of the night.
2. Give her a pedicure.
3. Prepare and attend to her in the bathtub, including washing her hair and shaving her legs.
4. Hot candle wax dripped on me in locations she desires, for at least 3 minutes.
5. She will edge me four times in one night.
6. When I finally get to cum, it will be done with her in the cowgirl position, and as soon as I cum, she will immediately roll off and require me to eat her to orgasm.
She was very cute, because after all the rolls were completed, she asked what happened next, and I said, "well, nothing has to happen right now. I'm in chastity until all of the objectives are completed." She laughed, saying, "chastity, it cracks me up when you talk like that, it just sounds so funny." And then she asked what "edging" meant. I explained that it was getting me juuuuuuussst to the point of orgasm and then stopping. She laughed at that too, looking at me kind of like I was nuts.
But, immediately after that, she was very much the sexual predator, pushing me on my back and began licking and sucking me, all the while asking me if she was doing it right and if I was enjoying it. She brought me very very much to the edge until I told her to stop. She enjoyed the look at coyly asked if she was doing a good job. The answer was obvious, but I profusely provided my appreciation to her. She did it once again and then lay on her back, ordering me to fuck her.
It was extremely difficult to not cum, especially after the first two edgings. I've found that with me on top, and if I move slowly, I can last as long as I want because I can just stop or slow down when needed. The slow fucking lasted for some time until I could tell she was ready for her orgasm. I put my finger on her clit while still inside her to bring her off. Doing this, however, causes her to move much more, and it prevents me from controlling my own orgasm. After a while I had to pull out and get her off without me in her. It was phenomenal to see her. I told her that giving her the orgasm, and watching her enjoy that pleasure, was better than having my orgasm. That I did not orgasm was inconsequential. I was very happy.
We talked more about the game and what I needed to finish before the Chastity was over. She was very happy about most of the objectives, but expressed hesitation about the wax. When I created this game, I did try to make a mix of things that I knew she would readily accept and enjoy and others that pushed the envelope. When I say push the envelope, I mean hers and mine.
She's not into pain, so the wax idea is something I know she's not initially into. That one will be tricky to get her to do. It will have to be suggested when the conditions are perfect and she's not freaked out. Encouraging her and assuring that it will be pleasurable to me will be necessary.
The creampie cleanup is something that is even more interesting, but that's a post for another day. I do look forward to that day.
So, I'm now in chastity. (A post on our current dealings and conversations with Chastity will also be forthcoming.) It actually feels good to be back into Chastity and to be actively engaging in a form of Femdom, even if it is based upon my own construct. Again, I'm extremely happy to be even taking baby steps towards full fledged WLM, or wherever this ends up.