There is a great tumblr called Sensual Pegging. The link is http://sensualpegging.tumblr.com. The "goal" of that tumblr is "Sensual, loving pegging from a non-BSDM perspective, via a guy who really loves it. Images, video and Q&A about pegging, as well as beautiful women showing off their gear. Kinky, but not TOO kinky."
The thing I like about the site is that it does present the pegging aspect from loving relationships - not necessarily the "pain" that much of the other strap-on porn does. Usually, you see sites like "men in pain" or "girls abuse guys" etc. While both presentations are worthy, it's just that it seems the humiliation, aggressive, and almost non-consensual ones play into the stereotype about pegging that turns both vanilla men and women off.
The "sensual pegging" site recently posted the picture below.
I agree with everything written in that picture. But I found the heading to be way too limited. That heading should read "What straight men AND women need to know about Pegging." The vast majority of vanilla straight women who hear about pegging immediately freak out. They think the guy is gay. They lose respect for him.
If pegging is not your thing, that's fine. But if your lack of desire is solely due to the fact that mainstream society tells you it's not o.k. to like it, well I humbly suggest rethinking that position.
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We started pegging shortly after René told me about his submissive tendencies. So I suppose it had some D/s context then.
It has never become a regular practice for us, but we like doing it once in a while.
For us, it hasn't really anything to do with D/s (though it can be done as part of BDSM - it depends on the setting/context/attitude). We do not even consider it kinky. - It is just another way of having sex, of enjoying intimacy.
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