tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8535465646345290340.post9136865880914415785..comments2023-05-11T01:34:34.235-07:00Comments on A Wonderful Journey: Modern Family Did it AgainAnother Onehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06668239159843803679noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8535465646345290340.post-46740633463488431022012-02-15T05:09:29.615-08:002012-02-15T05:09:29.615-08:00I think we get a little too amped up about this so...I think we get a little too amped up about this sort of thing. The fact that when we hook up in a monogamous relationship, perhaps get married, doesn't stop that fact that we are still attracted to others. I will probably do a double take every time I see a woman in a bikini. My wife may not like that, but I think she acknowledges that is the way we are programmed. And she is the same way, she just repressed it for a long time. She points out men she thinks are hot and it doesn't bother me in the slightest. <br /><br />I am flattered by some (minor) flirting that happens say, when I am getting a haircut or getting a Starbucks. I won't cheat on my wife, but that sort of thing does boost my self-esteem. it makes me feel good about myself, and makes me think that "I still have it". The flip side to this is we totally let ourselves go and just take our spouse for granted. For me, one of the funnest things about FLR is the fact that I am not resting on my laurels, but rather still wooing/pursuing her. It reminds me of the tension I had when I was dating. It is nerve-racking but super exciting too. Did I please her enough that she feels like I deserve an orgasm? The thrill of the unknown is a rush.<br /><br />I don't really know if my wife actually flirts or is flirted with. I hope so. I think it would build her confidence and make her feel sexy, for when she gets home to me. Sorry for the ramble.<br /><br />Cheerslovetosubmithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04255078782896892207noreply@blogger.com